SUNDAY BLOG: THE PROS AND CONS OF MARRIAGE AND BEARDS ARE HERE TO STAY

KEEPING COOL ZOO STYLE

Much cooler this week but still the warm air, rather nice. However the tomatoes are much slower to ripen but ‘everything comes to him who waits’ – her too. Having fun this week with an air fryer! I was talking to a woman who was sitting in an automatic car and I asked her if it was as good as people say and she said: “There are two must haves in life, an automatic car and an air fryer.” Well, the automatic car is out of the question but the air fryer now sits in the kitchen and is behaving well. I’ve done chicken legs – quite successful – chips very successful and French onions rings – brilliant . Next is a baked potato. I have tried microwave and oven but I’m assured the best of all is air frying. So here goes.

Sean Bean and Nicola Walker

I have watched all episodes of Marriage on BBC and I liked it. It was challenging, often difficult to make out the dialogue and rather confusing but it was riveting. It certainly has divided the viewing public but I agree with Sean Bean that so much on television is boring, predictable and colourless – and he says usually featuring detective stories! I would encourage everyone interested in drama to give it a go especially if you can watch one episode after the other so the storyline continues uninterrupted.

Hair Today

Men at work.  Sean Lawlor and his colleague Shane in the traditional surrounds of Cambridge Barber Shop

When I was just a little girl I had to endure plaits or as we called them, pig tails.  Every morning my mum brushed my hair and braided my locks and I hated it.   Then came the years of maturity, as a teenager of 13, I decided to take matters or pig tails into my own hands.  We were holidaying in Portstewart and I noticed a barbers shop in the town.  One day, on pretence of going to the beach, I presented myself to the owner and asked for a short back and sides!  He smiled sweetly and apologised, with tongue in cheek, said he couldn’t possibly without my mothers consent.  “But my mother sent me,” I told him holding out my pocket money. I was not popular when I arrived home with my hair in a brown paper bag although when they got over the shock my mum and grandmother liked the new look and that look has remained with me to this day.

Ask anyone how important hair is to your self esteem.  It’s not known as your crowning glory for nothing and women have always primped and primed but men too want to look well groomed and elegant.  The short back and sides are no longer the ‘in’ look, it now varies from ‘skin fade’ to a well balanced top-knot as well as the more conventional hair cut.

I was told, when it comes to barbering,  Sean Lawlor is the man to contact.  

I met him in his traditional Cambridge Barber Shop and Shaving Room on Belfast’s Lisburn Road, it was like walking into an Edwardian gentleman’s establishment, the Shops Act 1912 prominently displayed on the wall along with photographs of clients through the years including one gentleman on his 100th birthday.  As promised by Sean he didn’t pay from that day until he died, his youngest client was just nine days old and had to have his hair removed for a Nigerian baptismal ceremony.   

Statue of Alexander the Great in Thessaloniki, Greece. (Nenad Nedomacki/Shutterstock)

Looking Back

Old mirrors, custom built basins big enough and deep enough to wash the whole head, face and all, four ‘stations’ plus a shaving room where Fey wet shaves his customers using what used to be known as a cut throat razor in the days of Sweeny Todd but in Fey’s hands a delicate act with a fresh blade every time for safety and hygiene.  It’s a long way from his counterpart in ancient Egypt where this job was done with oyster shells and flintstones so it was no wonder this work was entrusted to top tribesmen.  Beards signalled powerful rulers, a sign of intellect and strength, only important people attended the barber – philosophers, poets and warriors.  However, beards went out of fashion when Alexander the Great ordered them be removed as the Persian army pulled down his men by their facial hair and then killed them.  But barbers retained their popularity when they began to work with medical professionals and were known as ‘surgeon barbers’ hence the red and white poles still seen on some shops – blood and bandages!

Sean is very proud of his staff who can count three generations amongst their clientele, nine in all divided between his Lisburn Road and Stranmillis Road premises and yet he admits this famous award winning empire actually came about by mistake.

“I’ve been working since I was eight, lemonade runs, stacking shelve in a local shop and I was a paper boy for a while. When I was 16 I wanted to leave school so I went job hunting.  It was a Friday when saw a notice in Hair Traffic window looking for apprentices, I walked in off the street, started on Saturday and, with a trainee wage of £15 a week, school was a thing of the past.”  And he hasn’t been out of work since. 

A Happy Mistake

After qualifying Sean went to London to further his career but it wasn’t for him and he decided to come home to more courses in hair dressing and  a placement in a ladies salon to learn the ropes.  But, by mistake he was sent to a barber’s shop and, as he says, the rest is history!   He joined Michael O’Hare on St. Valentines Days 16 years ago and has worked in the Cambridge shops since; he became a partner in the business and is delighted that his youngest son, Rhys has taken up the scissors and is working in his Stranmillis Road shop.

Sean Lawlor fights for what he believes in and took on Stormont over two enforced closures during the pandemic and queried this when other establishments remained open, rattled the cage and made his point, he refused regulations that customers had to book rather than walk in and expressed his views on Nolan and life returned to some normality.  He was back to scissor haircuts, flame hair singeing and applying top brands to nourish and condition the scalp and hair including the traditional Bay Rum originating in the West Indies and described as a zesty masculine fragrance created by sailors who steeped bay leaves in rum and, once matured,  splashed it on to attract the ladies; it’s now used in traditional barber shops around the world.

The Cambridge is a talking shop, a social hub just like barbers have always been since the days of Egyptian noblemen. Terminology may have changed but still the older generation like the traditional cut, younger ones follow film stars and Love Island idols indeed, according to research carried out by Lynx deodorant, 18 to 35 year old men in Belfast spend 45 minutes preening themselves and fashioning their hair before going out on the town.  We women still outstrip them – usually takes a leisurely makeover longer than 45 minutes for us to approve of what we see in the mirror!  Often over a glass of wine!

Think about it!

Best value flowers. Gladiolas. First they are tall and elegant and as the lower flowers fade they can be removed and still there is a brilliant display which lasts for ages even if, eventually, there are only a couple of blossoms left.