SUNDAY BLOG: SWEET SPIDER WOMEN AND A WALL

Danny Dyer

I am amazed. A grown man talking to a wall! In fact yelling at the wall, hands in pockets, slumping around the stage. His side kick is another man, well dressed and intelligent, he was shouting at the wall as well. “Come on, this way, that’s it ball.” The ball was making it’s way down the face of the wall and into a slot showing an amount of money. Answer the question correctly and you get the money. I’d caught the end of a new game show on BBC. The man has to put a big ball in a shoot so there’s more yelling, “Wack it in son” says hands in pockets man by the name of Danny Dyer, EastEnders cockney pub landlord. His mate is shouting, “Do it for me, be kind ball, go left, go left.”

The pounds climbs up and up until there’s a lot of money in the pot. But there’s a catch. His wife is in an isolation chamber, she has to answer more questions correctly and then sign a contract to say she’ll take the money that’s guaranteed, £19,505 or not sign and take a chance on what’s been in the pot because she doesn’t know how it has mounted up – £94,000! She signed the contract. Wrong decision. Damp squib ending to a truly awful programme. This is Saturday night entertainment. All this and Ireland getting thrashed.

Sweet Tooth Well Satisfied

Whitehead Co Antrim

Two questions.  What makes a women fight her way through terrifying trauma and what makes fudge so irresistible?  After all it’s just a mix of sugar, milk and butter.  Ah but, it’s how this young crafter mixes it, the amounts and the little extras she adds that makes all the difference, I know because I’ve tasted Cat Briggs Evans’ Classic Confections.  

There’s a remarkable story behind this Co. Antrim based entrepreneur.  

Catriona, known as Cat, was a nursery school assistant for ten years and then a special needs classroom assistant.  

Sadly, in 2015, at the age of 43 she lost her voice and was eventually diagnosed with cancer of the thyroid, papillary carcinoma, a slow growing condition confined to her throat; immediately treatment began, bravely she continued to work through it.   “Then one night when I was watching Harry Potter I turned my head and there was this terrible pain.” 

Hospitalisation followed, checks, a more intense drug regime and eventually an operation to remove the thyroid.

The treatment she was receiving involved radioactive iodine which meant she wasn’t allowed within a metre of anyone which was difficult at home, so she slept on the floor in one room and cast-off clothes were binned.  She laughed when she told me that on her birthday that year she got gorgeous scarfs from all her friends.  “To cover the scar which is so small you can hardly see it!  As a result I developed a scarf fetish!”

Dark Time

It was difficult for her and her husband and their two sons, 14 and 10 because, after the operation and when she was in remission, she went into a deep depression and couldn’t leave the house.  “I was self-harming and unable to cope with social situations, I’d either cry off or leave the company after the first few minutes.  But you either lie down under these things or get up and get going.”

She didn’t lie down under it, she kept going, finding an escape in baking which was always a passion, the Great British Bake Off programme was an inspiration and she began to study and spread her wings as a confectioner.

Once she was feeling better Cat went to Italy to her cousin’s wedding and when she was there the warm weather, walking and baking gave her strength to come home and concentrate on her sweet making. This gave her a focus but as she was still on sick leave from her school employment she began thinking that people were saying there was nothing wrong with her and she was taking someone’s chance of a job and so the depression got worse. However, this lady doesn’t give up easily.  She decided to hand in her notice, take a chance and develop her sideline into a business.  

Whitehead Light House
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At first truffles were on the agenda but with a twist, she made bespoke sweetmeats taking customers memories and adding flavour combinations  to make a special product.  One client liked to remember a boyhood Christmas with his family so she featured his story with the Clan MacArthur linked with Arthur Guinness and his product, mixed with juniper reflecting gin distillers and seasonal flavours like cinnamon.  It was a major hit!  

Soon she had developed her business and was selling at markets and as it took off, she realised she had a second chance at life and living.

The truffles were a success but the fudge was even more popular, people loved it and shops began to stock the little bags of delight flavoured with raspberry, garden mint, lime, spearmint, orange or cardamom.  She even has a vegan range. 

“At the moment the kitchen is my workplace but I plan to convert part of the garage in order to keep up with the demand.  I’m almost five years free of cancer now and I know how to cope with depression.  I’m now focusing on the positive and finding the positives.”  With Christmas approaching she will be targeting  wedding favours and corporate events as well as shops and hotels. 

“Using locally sourced ingredients is important and this gives the product a special taste which is best when eaten fresh.”  I can vouch for that!

Cat has turned her life around, even takes on public speaking about her experiences  and recently spoke at a Fearless Women Summit.  It’s obvious that despite all she’s been through Cat Briggs Evans is really excited about her new life and her future, her face lights up when she talks about her family and her classic confections.   “I’m self-taught and I’m proud of doing it for myself and of what I’ve achieved. “                                                                                    

For more information:   catrionaclassicconfections@gmail.com

Itsy Bitsy Spider

Lady Brenda Hale

The must-have Christmas present this year is a tee-shirt emblazoned with a sparkling silver spider on the front.  The inspiration comes from television appearances of the head of the Supreme Court, Lady Brenda Hale, who announced that Boris Johnson had made some dubious decisions!   I feel I must say Lady H, I’ve been there and worn the tee-shirt.   I’ve had my spider for over 30 years.  

The other Mrs. Hailes

Do You Know Of This Woman?

An appeal from Paul D. Wilson who is researching the life of Belfast writer Robin Bryans, more familiar under his pen name Robert Harbinson.  

“Time and time again he refers to a Belfast actress called Jean Hamilton, whom he says was a good friend of his. But I can find no information about her anywhere bar a reference in a programme dated January 1935, Grand Opera House Annual Dramatic Feis where she played Liza Dolittle in Pygmalion.  I believe she was married to an actor/artist Humphrey Knight.  If you can help I’d really appreciate it.”  If you can help please contact Paul at paul@wordstock.co.uk

And so the story goes on… and on …. and on …. the suspense is thrilling, if you like that sort of thing! Actually I do although there are very few of the actors in this particular soap opera I have any respect or liking for. Ever onward!